As a family member, one of the most difficult decisions you can ever make is when to place a loved one in a nursing home. This is because it’s very hard to remove someone’s independence from their life, and it’s especially challenging when you and this other person don’t agree that a nursing home is the next step.

Most people want to live as independently as possible for as long as they can. They don’t want to acknowledge a decline in their ability to live safely alone and they might also feel the pressure of the high cost of a nursing home. Without an active long term care policy, a semi-private room can cost thousands of dollars a month in Massachusetts. Someone with a spouse might be concerned about spending through the couple’s savings or the situation they’re putting their partner in by going to a nursing home.

So how do you know when it’s time? It’s possible that someone else like a doctor brought this up to your family because of safety concerns or deterioration in their cognitive ability or physical health.

Some signs that it might be time to investigate a nursing home include:

  • When personal hygiene, feeding, toileting, or other daily issues are a challenge
  • When family members are no longer able to provide the level of physical support and time required
  • When the persons’ condition requires around the clock supervision or nursing care
  • When they have specific needs, like dementia care
  • When their personal safety is at risk or they are at risk of harming others

Paying for care is a big concern for many families; consider how advanced planning for Medicaid can help you protect your interests. Speak with an MA estate planning lawyer today for more information.


Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this content does not create an attorney-client relationship. For legal advice specific to your situation, please consult with a qualified attorney.

Tiffany A. O'Connell, JD, LLM, CELA, AEP

About Tiffany A. O'Connell, JD, LLM, CELA, AEP

Tiffany A. O'Connell, JD, LLM, CELA, AEP is the CEO and Founding Partner of O'Connell Law, an estate planning and elder law firm serving clients across Massachusetts, New Hampshire, and Vermont. She is one of a select group of attorneys in Massachusetts certified by the National Elder Law Foundation as a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA). Tiffany focuses her practice on estate planning, trust and probate administration, Medicaid planning, long-term care planning, Alzheimer's planning, charitable planning, and retirement and wealth strategies. She has been helping families plan for their futures since opening her practice in 2010.

Credentials: JD, LLM, CELA (Certified Elder Law Attorney — National Elder Law Foundation), AEP (Accredited Estate Planner)

Licensed in: Massachusetts

Areas of Practice: Estate Planning, Elder Law, Medicaid Planning, Probate & Trust Administration, Alzheimer's Planning, Asset Protection

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