If you are helping an older parent or other elderly family member make decisions about their care, it’s very likely that they want to remain as independent as possible for as long as possible.Aging in place concept: elderly man with using a walker is being helped by a nurse

Advantages of Aging in Place

This is known as aging in place and means thinking carefully about whether or not leaving your loved one in their own home, but supplementing this with friends and family support or in-home care is necessary to assist them. There are some situations that indicate that the right place for a loved one with some level of needs could be in the longtime family home. These could be:

  • Preserving familiar relationships with existing service providers and friends.
  • Minimizing disruptions to possessions and pets.
  • The advantages of living in a familiar location, such as finding their way when the power goes out, or navigating rooms out of familiarity.
  • The advantages of a familiar neighborhood and easy access to services and shops the loved one already knows.
  • Maintaining privacy.

Potential Costs of Aging in Place

There are also other potential costs associated with aging in place. For example, if your loved one has significant medical needs, and your family has safety concerns as a result, it is important to think about whether or not aging in place is the right choice. Providing additional nursing care could help give you and your loved ones peace of mind. There are some situations, however, when a loved one with dementia or with severe physical issues may need the services provided by assisted living or even a nursing home.

Importance of Estate Planning Documents

Knowing that your loved one has the right estate planning documents to make this process easier is important. Talk to one of our Massachusetts estate lawyers to learn more.


Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Reading this content does not create an attorney-client relationship. For legal advice specific to your situation, please consult with a qualified attorney.

Tiffany A. O'Connell, JD, LLM, CELA, AEP

About Tiffany A. O'Connell, JD, LLM, CELA, AEP

Tiffany A. O'Connell, JD, LLM, CELA, AEP is the CEO and Founding Partner of O'Connell Law, an estate planning and elder law firm serving clients across Massachusetts, New Hampshire, and Vermont. She is one of a select group of attorneys in Massachusetts certified by the National Elder Law Foundation as a Certified Elder Law Attorney (CELA). Tiffany focuses her practice on estate planning, trust and probate administration, Medicaid planning, long-term care planning, Alzheimer's planning, charitable planning, and retirement and wealth strategies. She has been helping families plan for their futures since opening her practice in 2010.

Credentials: JD, LLM, CELA (Certified Elder Law Attorney — National Elder Law Foundation), AEP (Accredited Estate Planner)

Licensed in: Massachusetts

Areas of Practice: Estate Planning, Elder Law, Medicaid Planning, Probate & Trust Administration, Alzheimer's Planning, Asset Protection

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